Age-appropriate Topics for Discussion with Your Child:
The American Academy of Pediatrics suggests that as a parent you should:
- Teach your child about the privacy of body parts. Some parents describe these as areas covered by a bathing suit.
- Listen when your child tries to tell you something, especially when it seems hard for them to talk about it.
- Know who your child is spending time with. Be careful about allowing your child to spend time in out-of-the-way places with other adults or older children. Make visits to your child's caregiver without notice. Ask about the time your child spends with sitters.
- Give your child enough of your time so the child will not seek attention from other adults.
| Age | Discussion Topic |
|---|---|
| 18 months | Teach your child the proper names for body parts. |
| 3-5 years | Teach your child about private parts of the body and how to say no to sexual advances. Give straightforward answers about sex. |
| 5-8 years | Discuss safety away from home and the difference between good touch and bad touch. Encourage your child to talk about scary experiences. |
| 8-12 years | Stress personal safety. Start to discuss rules of sexual conduct that are accepted by the family. |
| 13-18 years | Continue to stress personal safety. Discuss rape, date rape, sexually transmitted diseases, and unintended pregnancy. |
If You Suspect Child Abuse
- New York State 800 342-3720
- Onondaga County 315 422-9701
For more information:
- Child Welfare Information Gateway
, 800 422-3366 - Prevent Child Abuse America
, 312 663-3520